What have we done?

Ibn al Qayyim (may allah have mercy on him) said:

"How many people have caused misery to their own children, the apples of their eyes, in this world and in the Hereafter, by neglecting them, not disciplining them, encouraging them to follow their whims and desires, thinking that they were honoring them when they were in fact humiliating them, that they were being merciful to them when in fact they were wronging them. 

They have not benefited from having a child, and they have made the child lose his share in this world and in the Hereafter. If you think about the corruption of children you will see that in most cases it is because of the parents"

Tuhfat al-Mawhood 

Semoga Allah lindungi anak-anak kita. Amin.

Priority

Malam-malam ci skrg dipenuhi dgn dialog bersama diri sendiri.
Apa yg betul ci buat, apa yg kurang.
Ada termarah anak2 ke, terkasar ke, ter neglect ke.

My oh my, working at home while raising 3 kids was never near to easy.
Mcm kena tarik semua anggota, in different directions.
Sorang tgh makan, sorang nak poo-poo.
Sorang nak bf, lg sorang jerit nak makan.
Haha. Precious sungguh! :)

Nak mudah, bukak tv, bg ipad.
Tp nanti Allah tanya apa ci dh buat dgn amanah yg Dia bg, apa yg ci nak jawab.

So, bila ci nampak org maju dr ci, yg dh ke depan, Ci takleh tepuk meja dan kata 'Eh, I should be there...'

Well, probably I should.
But, sadly, I can't.

Honestly, kkdg, dalam hidup ni, kita takleh dpt semua (walaupun kita nak...).
Mesti kita akan korban salah satu. Kos lepas org kata.

My kids are my top priority.
They are the reason I have strength to sent resignation letter.
The reason I have guts to let go all my privilege, my free time, my career.

Although ci ada bisnes, ci ada projects going on, semuanya lepas uruskan mereka.

:-)